What Is Wrong with That?

The proverb above is saying that stealing from your parents is serious. Although many people would never steal money or things, they don’t give a second thought to robbing them of respect. The 4th of the Ten Commandments is, “Honor your father and your mother.” It is clear that God considers this not just important to your parents, but it’s important to him. 

A pastor once said, “A child who is allowed to be disrespectful to his parents will not have true respect for anyone.” I believe this is true. And this applies to grown-up children too. Being kind and respectful is a decision, then a habit, then a lifestyle.

How about you and your parents? Do you get upset or angry each time your parents make a suggestion? Do you find you get annoyed, ignore your mom or dad, or are rude to them like when you were a teenager? And do you blame them for your flaws? Some people justify their attitudes by passing on the blame. Let’s not get stuck in that dead-end trap.

And so, for us as godly people, let’s grow up. There is a gracious maturity in seeking to love and be good to your parents—just because they're your parents.

The holidays can bring out the best or the worst in family relationships. If your parents are getting older, they may feel especially lonely at this time. Age carries with it health issues, regrets from the past, and fear of the future. Be aware of this. If they vent, or complain, or withdraw, please don’t be angry or resent the extra burden they have become. They carried you and put up with your crying fits once, you know. They might feel very useless right now; call and ask their advice. Ask your mom or dad to teach you to make their special holiday dish. Take an hour to help them send a few cards to people. Someday, they will no longer be with you. Love them while you still can.

Blessings,
Pastor Dave